What are your favorite methods of inflicting/receiving pain?

-What you have done before
-What do you want to try

Get creative with your responses!

Topics: sadist, masochist, bdsm, sm
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There's a reason I use Sadomasochist as my role.

In general, I like to use the same things I like to receive.

canes, I have several in different thicknesses and made of different materials -- I don't just hit the ass. There are numerous places on the body they can be used, including the pelvic triangle above a cock but below the lower belly. And the cock and balls themselves. Pectorals are fun to cane. The bottom never knows when the nipples might be struck, so it adds to their anticipation.

Wooden spoons of all sizes and shapes. Again, all over the body.

I like to receive impact from hands but I cannot give with my hands. I am developing arthritis, so using my bare hands to hit hurts them more than it hurts the bottom. lol I must use implements and wear gloves.

Hair brushes
usb cables
metal knitting needle

I do have a small metal frying pan in my kit, and it has been used.

I've bought a singletail and have been working with it, learning to handle it. I doubt EW ever will use it with me, however.

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Phosia Euphosia

I like to get inside of a subs head and play around!

I do this by tying them over a sawhorse or spanking bench.

Using games like making them try to keep their hands open while I paddle their ass works great, mixing pain and pleasure is part of the mix too.

You mix a sensual tease or a tickle in and then crack them on the ass, it gets you a lot more mileage than simply whacking away.

the thing that will really drive them crazy with the open hands bit is after you have been doing it for a few minutes their hands get super sensitive and simply tracing your finger up their palm and lower arm can literally give them shivers all over.

Although you have to be careful because I have also had this cause someone to pee involuntarily.

Also faking them out is one of my favorite tricks, make them thing I am going to crack their ass really hard and they brace for impact and are met with a soft touch or a tickle.

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